Dearest Ruth,
I’m so thankful that I found you. We first connected over a hair appointment, and I remember being in such a bad way with my hair after some real nightmare experiences. I told you how nervous and unsure I felt, and you were so kind. You took your time with me, explaining what you could do and what to expect. From the very beginning, you showed so much patience, understanding, and genuine care. You even apologised for what I’d been through, even though it had nothing to do with you it just felt like you really wanted to help me trust again.
Before we even met, just through messages and phone calls, I already felt at ease with you. I worried I might have been asking too many questions or being a bit picky, but you never made me feel that way. You reassured me every time, telling me it was important that I felt comfortable. That meant everything to me, and I knew then I had to book with you. Even though you were miles away, I didn’t care I just knew I needed to come and see you. And I’m so glad I did.
From the moment I arrived, you welcomed me so warmly. You were just as lovely in person as you had been on the phone. We clicked straight away, chatting and laughing while you did my hair. I’ll never forget you sharing your food with me because I hadn’t brought anything. I remember thinking, “She’s so kind she’s actually feeding me.” I felt a bit embarrassed at first, but you made it feel so normal, like it was nothing. We sat there eating, talking about the film we had on, and it honestly felt like we’d known each other for years, not like it was our first time meeting.
I even met your mum that first visit, which was such a blessing. I remember her praying for us before she left I was so surprised, but it was such a beautiful moment. And you just smiled and said, “Yeah, that’s Mum that’s what she does.” We both shared a smile. It’s a memory I’ll always hold onto.
And when you finished my hair wow.!
You did such an amazing job. You listened, you were honest, and everything you said made sense. I left feeling so happy and confident. From that day on, I was travelling to you every time without question. That first appointment was just the beginning, and looking back now, it feels like such a special time.
Over the years, I got to meet your sisters and other family members, and it was always such a lovely atmosphere to be around. You carried yourself with so much elegance and grace, no matter the time early mornings or midday you always showed up. Even when you felt like you didn’t, you truly did. You always looked beautiful, and your smile so warm and full of joy just lit everything up.
You were also so talented with makeup. Even though I didn’t get the chance to have mine done by you, I saw your work, and you had really mastered your craft. People would come so early in the morning just to sit in your chair and let you work your magic. That says everything.
The last time we spoke, I really thought I’d see you again. Writing this now is so hard. I’m just so grateful that our paths crossed, and I only wish I’d met you sooner. You are truly one of a kind, and you will never, ever be forgotten.
I’m so grateful and honoured for the times we shared and want to Thank you again for just being you.
Love Always
Mandy Xxx
I want to send my deepest condolences to your family during this incredibly difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
April 2026